面子是给别人看的，日子才是自己的；面子是虚无缥缈的，里子才是实实在在的。与其每日只想着怎么“有面子”，不如沉下心来丰盈自己的“里子”。

Face is for others to see; life is your own to live. Face is illusory and intangible; substance is solid and real. Rather than spending every day thinking about how to "save face," it's far better to calm your mind and enrich your inner self.